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French Girl Style. From The Source.

16 Aug

When I arrived in Paris it became immediately apparent to me that my neighborhood, the Marais, was every shopping enthusiasts’ paradise.  I came across one shop in particular that I fell in love with. Joy is a boutique that makes you feel like you’re in Alice’s Wonderland within A Midsummer’s Night Dream on the set of the coolest 1960s French film.  Does that give your imagination enough to conjure up some images?

I had the pleasure of getting to spend some time with the owner, buyer and designer of Joy, Valentina, who let me in on some of the secrets to what it means to be French, feminine and fashionable…

What makes your shop special and unique?

‘We have a selection that highlights what is chic and trendy in Paris. Our fashion is very subtle and gentle so that it can be adapted to each time of day depending on the accessories that you decide to wear. We offer several very select brands. The idea is to have a representation of the each brands universe, its strengths and its essential parts; to mix one with the other and to have fun!’

What does ‘joy’ mean for you?

‘Joy is a lovely word.  It is just three letters, simple and light as fashion should be.  It means fun and nothing else.’

What makes the style of French women stand out from the rest of the world?

‘Our style is based on a way to dress with chic simplicity. It’s the choice of deep and warm colors or a detail of embroidery…and always aggressively feminine.  You dress in what you feel good in because the materials are soft and volume/silhouette follow the female body without ever contradicting it. The style of the young French woman could be defined by its light, clean lines and a very detailed chic.’

Do you have any fashion ‘rules’?

‘There are no rules in fashion, especially with our lives so sufficiently regulated otherwise. Try to never restrict yourself because you might end up imposing on something new!  If there is one important thing to remember, it is to have fun and feel good.  From there you have the right to do anything!  However, I would say that a silhouette is beautiful when it is not overloaded.  Focus on a detail, a mixture of material, a refined ornamentation, avoid adding all the rainbows and sky to an outfit.  And especially…respect your body.  Accept it as it is and don’t force it. A figure is a whole, never a detail.’

What are the essential basics that every girl should have in her wardrobe?

‘We are all different! I’m crazy about fashion, so for me everything is essential!  I would say a dark blue skinny jeans, not black. Navy blue is used to associate the colors without ‘breaking’ them up and you can wear it with everything. A light silk dress you can wear with boots during the day and evening with something to offset it.  A big, oversized sweater with a plunging neckline in a very soft knits…that’s so Parisian.  A masculine cut jacket in wool.  A long chiffon skirt that can be worn with something oversized, as well as part of a more slinky outfit. And a pea coat.  Each garment has a story should tell a story.  If it does, that’s all you really need.’

Joy seems to be a mixture of a playful youthfulness and adult chic. How can you balance these effectively?

‘That is exactly what we all are! Women with a playful youth!  Balance is created on its own.  Try several things and work on combinations.  Then all of a sudden it works…you smile when you look in the mirror and voila! That’s the magic of it all and it’s the most important part of getting dressed.  We have beautiful and chic silk See By Chloe gowns with fronts that are very simple and minimalist.  Then in the back, the collar is closed by a large knot keeping it chic but also very playful.’

What are your favorite brands and products at the moment? 

‘I must admit, the collections we have for winter are truly spectacular!  There’s this high-waisted wool skirt Sonia By Sonia Rykiel wool cloth with a belt that cinches the waist tied in a small knot…the blush pink silk blouses of Erika Cavallini/Semi Couture…vintage jewelry…a very soft oversized cardigan by Cacharel…Fred Perry boots…a See By Chloe bag in a beautiful sepia color…and, of course, the Alex Monroe jewelry! We are all addicted!’

Make sure to visit Joy’s website where you can find more about the store and how to buy parts of the collection online.  And if you’re in the Marais, make sure to visit the shop itself.  Valentina has made Joy a real oasis in the hustle and bustle of the city but also has some of the most amazing merchandising I have ever seen.  Not too much, not too little and something for everyone who wants something with a story.

And don’t forget, you have until Tuesday to enter our giveaway here to win a copy of the book ‘Paris vs New York’!

A Note On French Beauty.

19 Jul

The French are beautiful.  An irritatingly, naturally beautiful species that seems to exist with little to no fuss regarding their primping regime.  While the rest of us around the world seem to need the minimum of an hour to get ourselves ready in the morning in order to deem our appearance ‘appropriate’, the French just seem to roll out of bed, shake their hair about a bit and then walk straight out the door and somehow look superhuman.

Maybe this is much deeper than a beauty regime (I can’t for the life of me figure out how the French stay hydrated…seems like nothing but coffee, wine and very tiny glasses of water) and a greater question about an overall way of being but honestly, I don’t have the brain power to even begin to contemplate that at the moment.  But what I can tell you is that they take beauty very seriously and that involves the care in which goes into oneself and much less about the care taken to disguise what we really look like.

My whole point is really quite superficial after such a psychological view of beauty.  French pharmacies are mind-blowing.  Yup.  That’s basically what I’ve been trying to say.  You see, when I myself, an American who loves to shop and goes into some kind of brilliant daze when entering a Sephora, think of a pharmacy, I think of something a bit low brow.  Aisles of everything you never knew you needed and don’t actually need at all.  Cheap fixes to whatever ailments you may have with some half-assed beauty products thrown in.

BUT NAY.  NOT IN FRANCE.  If you are a fan of CVS or Duane Reade, it is my job to tell you right now that you better get the f**k out of dodge.  French pharmacies do, in fact, sell you things to help you with your health issues but if you think you’re just going to pop in and get some cheap face wash on your way home from work, the answer is ‘hell no’.  Skincare especially is incredibly important to the French and that shows here.  Some of the finest brands you can find are lining the shelves and employees are on hand to make sure you are buying what you need and not something to just do the job.

I went into my local pharmacy today to get some shave gel (look elsewhere, they won’t have it) and ended up with a moisturizer and lip balm that have already turned me into a new person.  Honestly, my other lip balm has been no help to me whatsoever in a time of need for the last few days and one application of the new guy and BOOM, my pout is back and ten times better than before.  An extra note, yes, you will be spending more money than you usually would at a pharmacy but it is still reasonable for the products you are getting and they will be totally worth the price of admission.  The only bother is…where will I find my very French products back on American soil?!

Live The Language.

17 Jul

I studied French through my junior high years all the way up until my second year of university.  I spent the better part of a summer on an exchange program which landed me in Northern France with a family for a month when I was a teen.  I should be able to speak French.  And usually, I can.  Or enough that I don’t look like a complete fool.  But complete fool I have been since I arrived in Paris.  So now, as my week in between classes and my mother’s visit begins, I am taking this part of my study more seriously.  I’ve been taking lessons with a lovely lady named Marjorie, sitting in a cafe, sipping coffee, getting scolded for making up words in French.  I’ve been forcing myself to go outside of my comfort zone in the streets of Paris, trying to converse even when I know how foolish I sound.  It’s hard, self-depricating work.

So this video came along at just the right frustrating moment for me.  It’s back to basics and a brilliant little story about the adventure.  How adorable.  Le sigh.

A Sneaky Peek At French Lingerie.

11 Jul

As I wrote about here, I am in Paris at the moment studying the fashion industry.  My main project through my course is to study and blog about a topic assigned to me and its relation to the beauty that is Paris fashion.  So I started The Coquette Costume and have been spending almost two weeks learning and writing about lingerie, one of the most beautiful facets of the French fashion industry.

It must then go without saying that I have been really looking forward to attending the Lingerie Francaise exhibit highlighting the history, craftsmanship and beauty of French designed lingerie at Espace Pierre Cardin.  Finally, on my third attempt to see the exhibit (first time it had yet to open to the public, second time it just didn’t bother opening up), I made my way in and…sigh…it wasn’t great.

I mean, yes, the garments themselves were lovely to look at but the exhibit itself seemed rather makeshift and ever so awkwardly temporary.  It was just rows of garments that all started to blend together, none standing out from any of the others, a few videos, a space to touch various fabrics and a really uncomfortable hologram show of women through the ages prancing about in their knickers.  The undergarments from days of yore were entertaining to watch but once you get to the 70s and a girl with big hair is just making cat poses at you for what feels like forever, you have no choice but to get up and get on with your life.

So what I’m saying is, there is no place in the world like Paris to shop for and learn about lingerie.  But you’re better off going into one of their legendary shops if you really want a show.

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